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Sharing personal experiences of giving and receiving health care

A Conversation With My Dead Wife

Sunday, October 31, 2021. Micalyn’s eightieth birthday.

A week ago, I texted my friend Sandy:

I had a reasonable day, but I felt lonely.

It’s so damn frustrating to have lost my best friend, Micalyn. Whenever I think of something I will want to tell her the next time I see her, reality comes crashing down on me.

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Elderly Multigravida

I had to drive across town for my appointments with the high-risk obstetrician. I had been referred to him by my normal-risk obstetrician due to my age (thirty-six the first time, and now again at thirty-nine) and my two previous miscarriages.

The waiting room was never crowded. It was dimly lit, with photographs of babies and children plastered across one wall.

Today, as at every visit, I studied the photos fiercely while waiting for my name to be called.

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My Blankie

One evening, at the age of four, I ran frantically into my bedroom, tears burning in my eyes, and started overturning the furniture, peering under my bed and scrabbling through piles of clothes. I bounded back downstairs into the kitchen to check the chair I’d sat in for dinner. Over and over, I asked my four siblings and my parents:

“Have you seen my blankie?”

Finally, I retraced my steps to the piano bench. There sat my blankie, a soft, bright yellow mound. I let out a sigh of relief, safe at last, and headed off to bed.

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More Voices

Every month readers tell their stories — in 40 to 400 words — on a different healthcare theme.

Recovering - More Voices
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Recovering

November 2024

Getting Motivated - More Voices
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Getting Motivated

October 2024

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Palliative and Hospice Care

September 2024

New Voices

Stories by those whose faces and perspectives are underrepresented in media and in the health professions.

Unasked, Unanswered

“Hi! I’m Reni, the medical student here today,” I say to the cargo pant-clad teenager sitting hunched on the exam table. “My pronouns are she/her. What are your name and pronouns?”

My smooth delivery is only somewhat ruined by my almost falling off the stool as I try to sit down hands-free. I look up once I’m less precariously perched, awaiting a reply.

“Oh, I’m Sam,” they shrug. “And any are fine.”

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Going It Alone

Editor’s Note: This piece was a finalist in the Pulse writing contest, “On Being Different.”

Loneliness can creep up on you like a phantom, slipping its cold hand into yours and offering companionship that is both depressing and alluring—particularly when, looking around, you see nobody else whose face mirrors your own.

It was my first day of residency at a top pediatric program in Boston—a predominantly white program catering to a predominantly white patient population in a predominantly white city.

Scanning the room, I realized that, for the next three years, I would be the only Black person among some thirty-five residents.

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“Hey, Uce”

I’ll never forget my shadowing experience in the emergency department during my first year of medical school.

Scanning that morning’s list of patients, I saw a last name that made me do a double-take. A distinctly Samoan name: Mr. Fuaga.

My father’s side of the family came to the States from Samoa before I was born, and I grew up curious about Polynesian culture. My father always taught me to seek out fellow Pacific Islanders in whatever path I pursued, no matter how few of us there might be.

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Poems

Alive

40 years ago
the night before Halloween
they let me into the frigid room

where they were keeping you
deeply sedated, your skin blue
and clammy, barely alive after

having trouble bringing you back,
with a wicked incision stitched
from collarbone to near navel

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Quilted

Vit
il
I go.

I loved quilts until I became one.

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Neighbor

I first notice the fog, unexpected
on the inside of a windshield,
a question mark
along the run-on sentence of parked cars, and,
with a snap, you are there,
wrapped in a bag in the back
seat with parking patrol on the prowl,
but they’re not so keen, blindly
driving by in a kind ignorance,

and I don’t see you either,
only your warm breath
caught at the glass,
and all I have are commas,

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Haiku

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