Pulse newmasthead 10th anniv 2252x376px

Subscribe/Energize


new subscription

Join the 11,000+ who receive Pulse weekly



energize subscription 
Energize your subscription
with a contribution and
keep
Pulse vibrant

Our goal this year:
500 energized subscribers

So far: 230



Questions?

If you have any questions about submitting a story to More Voices, please use the form below to send us a message.
Our editors will respond as soon as possible.
captcha
Reload

More Voices


Every month More Voices invites readers to contribute short nonfiction prose pieces of 40 to 400 words on a healthcare theme.

submittomorevoices

My first chemo was a year ago today. It had been scheduled to start eight months earlier, when I was first diagnosed with breast cancer, but I chose a different path and had hoped to avoid chemo altogether. My oncologist had initially recommended four months of chemotherapy to shrink the tumor before surgery, but he also mentioned that I qualified for a clinical trial that would use a pill for six months to cut off its estrogen supply. 

As I faced the plethora of decisions in those first harried days, my brother gave me some wise advice, saying, "Sis, sooner or later you'll be faced with decisions only you can make. You need to trust your gut." I spent the weekend stewing over chemo side effects vs. the possible risks of the clinical trial. Early that Monday morning, I read through the clinical trial again, and my gut clearly told me, "It's the right thing to do." My cancer was 100-percent estrogen receptor positive and slow-growing. Since chemotherapy works to destroy cells with rapid growth, my gut told me that cutting off the estrogen supply trumped chemo. If it worked well enough, I would be able to avoid chemotherapy altogether. The kicker was that I would have to wait six months to find out. 

That’s the thing about cancer. There is no turning back. You have to make treatment decisions and live with the results, or die with them, if that is the case. You will never know the outcome of the options you didn't choose. Even if you change course midstream, you can never go back and start over. And by the time I started chemo, I had learned that cancer isn't logical. It can do whatever it darn well pleases. 

That being said, my toughest decision wasn't choosing a treatment plan, it was choosing my mental attitude. I used to hate the saying "Life is ten percent how you make it and ninety percent how you take it." It made me feel like all my hard work only added up to a ten-percent difference. But I learned that choosing a positive attitude made me feel strong and brave. My mantra became, and still is, "Come what may, I am truly blessed."

Dorothy Harsen
Springfield, Missouri

Comments   

# Deborah Kasman 2017-09-06 15:04
Hi Dorothy-
thank you for your beautiful invite to the uncertainty every cancer patient chooses to live with , through an array of mind boggling, uncertain choices...but then life has choices.
I had breast cancer choices 1 & 1/2 years ago...I'm aware only time will tell if those choices were in my favor, but I accept they were the right choices for me

thank you again -you captured the conundrum - spot on!
Reply | Reply with quote | Quote