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"You need a fifth surgery," the maxillofacial surgeon tells me. "Heterotopic bone is again growing over your prosthetic device."

For eight years I have endured intense pain in my left jaw. While having four surgeries, I have also undergone Botox treatment, acupuncture and physical therapy; taken a variety of medications prescribed by pain doctors, neurologists and my primary care physician; and used specially made creams, ice and heat on the affected area. Nothing has worked.

And now I face surgery number five.

It would be a more intense version of surgery number four, my doctor explains: He would remove the prosthetic, clean out the bone, take fat from my stomach to make a cushion in my head, then replace the prosthetic. This time, he would cut more deeply, trying to make a larger separation between the bone roots to prevent a reconnection of the bone. He would insert a custom-made device, he says, jokingly adding--in an attempt to reduce my stress--that "if anyone ever accuses you of having a big mouth, just send them to me!" He might also bring in a radiation oncologist within twenty-four hours of the surgery to zap my head in two spots, as a way to prevent a reoccurrence of the bone growth.

I sit in my surgeon's office, a place that has become all too familiar to me. I struggle to open my mouth so he can measure its width, but I am unable to do so with any degree of success. I feel him hold my hand and hear his words of sympathy for my ongoing nightmare.

And I cry. I shed tears because my beloved dad, who has come to every previous appointment with me, no longer sits in the visitor’s chair in the exam room; he died on November 1. I shed tears because I am tired of living with chronic pain--of having to choose which activities to do and which to eliminate on a daily basis because I need my energy to cope with spasms in my head, constant headaches, and burning that emanates from the site of the previous surgeries. I shed tears because I feel hopeless, as if each surgery pulls me deeper into the quicksand; I fear the fifth might pull me under. And I shed tears at my untenable choice: live with the pain or risk a fifth surgery.

I do not know what to do.

Ronna Edelstein
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

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# MaryP 2017-04-08 03:34
I feel I need to comment but I have no wise words and no words of comfort to offer. I am feeling I have nothing to offer. But I cannot move on, having read about your pain, your loss of your father and your current loss of hope without saying I am feeling really sad and touched by your situation. All I can do is wish you strength and endurance and the return of hope. Sincere best wishes.
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